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I just need to begin with - DAMN YOU, MERCURY RETROGRADE!
I know it hasn’t officially started yet, but I know it’s already taking its toll on me and several others out there. So, after many blunders today, I decided to make this spread. Perfect for this… astrological pain in the ass!
Here’s an explanation of the cards:
1. You, during the mistake - Time to take a step back and see yourself from a different perspective. Something lead you to that point. This will give you a glimpse.
2. Root of your actions - A deeper look into your intentions. Were you drawn to something? Or was it merely a mistake? Did you know you were going to feel like an ass after the fact? (I didn’t, really.)
3. How people see you now - This is a big one. Embarrassment comes from what we think others are going to think/feel about us. This comes from the mistake, hence the card’s position. So, how do people feel now it’s over with? Have they moved on, or are they still thinking about it?
4. How to get over it - You can’t linger on this forever. This card will offer up some advice.
5. What to learn from all this - Well, you can imagine you won’t do it again. But maybe there’s something else to take away from this crazy experience.
Remember, we cannot escape Mercury retrograde, but we can learn to accept that shit happens and move on from it. Hopefully, this spread will help in those tough situations! Good luck!
I really hope your girlfriend realizes she’s dating a pathetic waste of a human being and finds someone infinitely better.
A lot of lesbians are turned off by the idea of their gf having sex with men. Why is that such a bad thing? Why is it so wrong to only like women who like other women? I think the anon who asked this should be honest with her gf and break up with her though if it’s that much of a turn off.
At first I wasn’t going to reply to comments like these but now that I’ve had a couple of beers the idea of repeatedly hitting my head against a brick wall seems more enjoyable so here we go.
I have a problem with lesbians who claim that they have a “preference” towards dating other lesbians over bisexuals. I understand having a preference, I personally have a preference for girls who are my height or taller than me. However, does this preference make me view my own voice, safety, and representation in my community as superior and of more importance than those I do not have a preference for? Nope. That’s why this anon (and unfortunately other like minded individuals) don’t have a “preference” they are biphobic and overall prejudicial assholes.
If you’re not comfortable dating bisexual people because you feel they will ultimately leave you for the opposite sex or (insert other stereotypical view of bisexuals) you don’t have a preference, you are biphobic, and have some huge insecurities that you should probably deal with before you enter a relationship.
If you’re a lesbian and do not feel comfortable dating a woman who is also attracted to individuals with dicks because you find it “icky” or “gross”, it must blow your mind when you find out your partner likes watermelon and you don’t. How do you even move forward from there? Is the relationship just doomed? And yes it is the same thing. Those individuals are judging someone based on something they cannot control.
Prejudice and phobia inside the queer community is something I will never understand and is absolutely infuriating.
^^^ This. This. This. ^^^
Stop kicking me out of my own damn community.
Not to mention Anon is fucking cissexist. Not all women have vaginas so you could meet a lesbian who has has sex with a woman with a penis.
If you’re afraid of dating bisexuals because they might wake up one day and realize they can do better than you then YOU ARE RIGHT
same goes for lesbians really
Just anybody, anybody dating a bigoted ass like you can do better and it has nothing to do with their preferences but it has everything to do with your prejudice
“If you’re a lesbian and do not feel comfortable dating a woman who is also attracted to individuals with dicks (…)”
nevermind that if you are a lesbian and you feel like that you are not only biphobic but transmisogynyst as fuck
stop hating on girls who wanna kiss people in museums or aquariums or art galleries stop hating on girls who want things that might be cliche stop hating on girls who want boys to treat them like they’re magic i will protect all girls with my life and just because they care about things that you don’t doesn’t give you the right to belittle them ok i will fight u
WHEN I GET HOME FROM WORK THE WOODEN TAROT DECK IS SUPPOSED TO BE HERE IM SO FUCKING HYPE OH MY GOD
I fucking quit
i hate art
"where’s your homework"
Art is just a big game of “why didn’t I think of that?” People are so ridiculous..
I myself have seen this woman draw the stars from the sky; she diverts the course of a fast-flowing river with her incantations; her voice makes the earth gape, it lures the spirits from the tombs, send the bones tumbling from the dying pyre. At her behest, the sad clouds scatter; at her behest, snow falls from a summer’s sky.
okay tbh the most exhausting thing about being a feminist is when one of your dude friends goes “are you a feminist?” for w/e reason and you’re like “yeh” & they take that as an invitation to debate you on every tired argument they’ve ever heard on 4chan
like please stop making my existence a debate, i’m just trying to eat this take-out and watch re-runs of project runway